Default mode 4 new beliefs

1. I accept people as they are i don't have any judgement of another soul they have right to full expression of their true self

2. I don't search mate for my unmeet need to be fulfilled which i didn't get in childhood 

3. I search for companion who can sustain with me in every stages of life and have good quality 

4. Trigger is my best friend to tell me forgive that part and beautiful grateful and connect to my highest self 

5. I don't want things from my partner in order to get what i didn't get from my parents I want safe and secure connection not anxious or avoidance 

6. My partner is not source of love and happiness but she is extention of that and I am extension of her love and happiness 

But our source of love and happiness is myself and herself. We are no dependent of to get love and happiness instead we add to each other