What is trauma of my father

1. His parents died when he was 8 or 10 years old 

2.his desire didn't fullfill 

3.he didn't trust anyone 

4.he is not developed fully manhood 

5.he has low self esteem 

6.he is afraid to go outside 

7.he is afraid to talk to people 

8.he is still child like behaviour 

9. He unfortunate to have parents attention 

10. He always want to validate him

11. Because he had not caretaker in his childhood he feared from everything and he want to control everything that because he don't want to loose anything and anyone this quality made him narcissistic person 

12. He is empty from inside